Adventure Travel | Making Love.

By Caterina Christakos

Having sex or making love?

Actually, the difference between the two concepts is bigger thansome of us would like it to be. And, as almost every time, womenfeel it the most. What is the difference? Well, love. Women needto be protected, looked after and loved as much in bed as inevery day life.

Keep in mind that this is not just a legend used by women tomanipulate men. The difference between having sex and makinglove, together with it's implications in a couple's sex life iswhat many men forget when sharing the bed-sheets with a woman.

Clearly, everything written so far will not apply toone-night-stands. In those cases it is all about a sexualintercourse between two people who only share their bodies.After the bottom line has been drawn, most men feel good aboutthemselves after a one-night- stand, without thinking abouttheir sexual performance. Totally pleasing a woman from the veryfirst time is no easy job as the only mystery she had disclosedis her body.

Yet, most men are attracted to one-night-stands or, with otherwords, to having sex. The lack of commitment needed and the easyattaining of the main goal: feeling good, are just two reasonspleading in favor of having sex.

On the other hand there is so much more between a man and awoman making love. There are feelings and emotions, leading to atotally different connection between the two of them. More thanthat, for women, one of the most important things during sex isthe environment. And this means everything from location tothose few candles some like to place around the bed.

Let's take them in turn a little bit. If you want to leave hersmiling and begging for a cigarette and some more there are somethings you might like to take into consideration.

Trying dad's old car's rear suspension will make the car happierthan her. The ideal location would certainly be a bed in a niceand cozy room with nothing interfering with the moment. Someoneknocking on the door or even a ringing phone can have veryundesirable effects. Some candle-like lights and easy-listeningmusic in the background adds even more to the overall foreplay.

Explore every inch of her body and draw imaginary contours withyour fingers and tongue, kiss her neck, breasts, belly and legs,all in a specific order surrounding the most important area andclosing in at the same time. All this will increase the tensionand when that moment comes both you and her will feel thedifference.

Communication is essential for great results. Men must payattention to the unspoken signs every woman gives them. Ignoringthese signs will make women feel used. The old legend that saysthat when a woman says "no" she actually means "yes" is nothingmore than a poor excuse so keep your ears open for her desires.

If all goes well, you might be given the supreme sexual commandand that's "don't stop!" When you hear that, whatever you do,DON'T STOP!

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